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Fun Stuff for Friday 2 comments

July 7, 2017, posted by Gina – Happy Friday! Well, it really does not seem like Friday with the 4th of July holiday. As a matter of fact, it slipped up on me. We are looking forward to the weekend and celebrating Mr. GDFC’s birthday! We have a few fun things to take you into the weekend that we think you will like.

|   NORDSTROM ANNIVERSARY SALE   |


Sometimes sales are not as great as you think but this one is the real deal! Nordstrom holds this sale every summer to help you get ready for Fall. Didn’t I mention recently that as soon as the 4th was over, Fall would be creeping in from every nook and cranny? Well, I am excited about this small interruption of Summer. After all, you can save BIG money on items that you know you will need, or maybe a few that you really want. If you are a card holder the sale begins on July 13th. If not, the sale will be open to everyone on the 21st and go through August 6th. Prices will go up on August 7th so don’t delay if you want some great deals. While we don’t have a Nordstrom in my city, I have shopped online with great success for many, many years and am never disappointed. Happy Shopping!

 

|   COCOA HONEY   |


I saw this at the grocery store last week and it hopped into my cart. If you like chocolate as much as I do, you will love this. This is delicious and makes shakes taste even better! Word to the wise, it is grainy and the directions on the jar suggest putting your serving in the microwave to make it smooth.

 

|   ROSE HEAD PIECE   |

I made this cute hair piece for a young lady receiving her First Communion a while back and it was just precious in her hair. I have been asked to create an all-white one for a little girl for next week. I love making these and can’t wait to show you the all neutral one. Sit tight!

 

Enjoy your weekend! We look forward to sharing some projects, inspiration boards with links and some yummy recipes. See ya next week!

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Manners on Monday: 7 Tips on How to Be The Perfect Dinner Guest

July 3, 2017, posted by Gina – There is nothing we love more than to be invited into someone’s home for dinner and we believe it is a true honor. Your host is helping strengthen your friendship in a way that not many other events can. Over a home cooked meal, you make a deeper connection because you get to know them on a more personal level, learning more about their lives and interests. It’s also always interesting to discover their personal style and sometimes even meet a cute pet or two. Here we give some suggestions on how to be a great guest.

1.RSVP – Respond as soon as possible so your host can begin planning.

2. DON’T BRING A GUEST – Unless your host has specifically indicated that guests or children are welcome, it is best not bring them along.

3. BE ON TIME – For a dinner invitation, it is best to arrive no later than 15 minutes past the specified time. Your host is working on a schedule and most likely has a timetable in mind for serving the food. If you are late, the whole schedule is thrown off.

4. BRING A HOSTESS GIFT – Who doesn’t like to receive a gift? A small, thoughtful gift will go a long way in letting your host know how much you appreciate their time and efforts. Some hostess gifts we like to give include beautiful soaps, lotions, tea towels or candles. We sometimes bring a breakfast pastry for them to enjoy the next morning. If you do this, make sure you tell the host that it is for them to enjoy the next day so they do not think you are wanting to serve it with dinner. Of course, we love flowers and suggest you bring them in a vase or purchase ones that are easy to pop into a vase. Plants such as orchids are wonderful as they are in a container and ready to go.

5. COMPLIMENTS ARE NICE – Your host has gone to a lot of trouble. Most likely they have spent extra time cleaning and straightening their home. They may have spent several days preparing the meal. Giving them a sincere compliment is a nice way of making them feel special.

6. GIVE THANKS – At the end of the evening, express your gratitude. Once home, write a quick thank you note and place it in the mail the next day. This lets your host know that you appreciate  all the work that it took to create a special moment.

7. RECIPROCATE – Later, invite the host to your home for dinner. By doing this you could be creating a lifelong friendship.


Fun Stuff for Friday: 4th of July Edition 2 comments

June 30, 2017, posted by Gina –  It’s Friday and, as always, we have some fun items to share with you…

|  THE PIONEER WOMAN MAGAZINE  |


A while back I heard that Ree Drummond was working on a magazine. I mean, what does this woman not do? I love her story. She started a cooking blog years ago and eventually she had her own food show. She then developed her own line of good-looking cookware and serve ware  which is sold at Walmart as well as in her new store. Yep, that’s right, she and her husband Ladd renovated an old warehouse that now houses all types of fun home goods, cooking supplies and even some clothes and accessories. It’s called the Merc (short for Mercantile). If that were not enough, there’s a restaurant inside the store. I don’t know her but through her show and writing she comes across as a down to earth, fun person. I grabbed her new magazine the moment I saw it on the rack and fell in love. She shares all kinds of recipes, home décor ideas, fashion tips and offers readers a look into her life on the ranch. I enjoyed every single page and if you love these things then I think you will enjoy it as well.

 

|  MASON JARS  |


Ok, so they’re not jars but….I found this small set of Mason nesting bowls on a recent trip to the grocery store. Initially, I thought they were just so cute but as I started to think of all the potential uses for them, a few landed in my cart. The large bowl is perfect for mixing a dressing in and the best part is these are so attractive you can use them for serving as well. They would also be great for serving salsa or condiments. Here are the sizes:
Large 4 ½ wide X 3 inches tall
Medium 3 ¾ wide X 3 inches tall
Small 3 wide X 3 inches tall

 

|  JAMES T. FARMER, A Place to Call Home  |


I read today that James Farmer has a new book entitled, A Place to Call Home that is due to be released in August. I was just giddy upon hearing this as I am a huge fan. In fact, I have three of his five published books. James is an author, cook, garden expert and interior designer. If you follow GDFC then you know these are all the topics we enjoy. In this new book, the reader will be taken through 11 southern homes (he’s all about the South) where we will be treated to home décor and gardening. I also spied floral arrangements in the few promotional photos that have been shared in relation to the release of this book. If you ever find yourself in Perry, Georgia, James has a storefront there and while I have not had the opportunity to visit, I am sure it is filled with culinary, décor and gardening treasures.

 

|  FRENCH SCENT  |

 

And from Across the Pond….Michelle told me she was out looking for a new perfume for the summer and she came across a a new brand called Bon Parfumeur. Their perfumes are 100% made in France and are numbered, rather than named, from 001 – 901. Each is identified by its three main notes. She told me she had a very hard time choosing but settled on 801 – Sea Spray, Cedar and Grapefruit. There are 15 unisex fragrances which can be wore alone or mixed together to create a very personalized scent.

 

|  HAPPY 4th of JULY FROM MY HOUSE to YOURS  |


I found these wood curl wreaths last year and love how they welcome the 4th in high style. As if these weren’t patriotic enough, I also found a couple of red, white and blue pillows to coordinate with the wreaths. Happy 4th!

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4th of July Tablescape


June 27, 2017, posted by Gina – The Fourth of July is an iconic summer holiday that is synonymous with cookouts, music, picnics, swimming pools, beaches and fireworks. Just as I have fond memories of parties and fireworks so do my own children. I look forward to the 4th because it is a relaxed celebration when you can enjoy all of summer’s bounty.


This tablescape provides a fun and welcoming palette. I used a quilt that has been in my husband’s family and somehow we became the fortunate recipients. We have had it for over 30 years. It was passed down to my mother-in-law from her mother. While I have no exact history on it, it’s at least 50 years. This quilt came to mind for use as a tablecloth since its colors reflect the laid back vibe of 4th of July.

I have two sets of napkins, one red and white and another blue and white. I thought it would be fun to use both and I love the casual look. The rattan chargers anchored each place setting of white plates (Southern Living Alexis) and a blue and white cup from Spode’s Italian pattern. The bamboo flatware seemed to lend itself to the casual tone of the table.


I created a couple of arrangements using sunflowers and hydrangeas in blue and white containers. This seems to be a pairing I return to time and time again. I think this combination echoes the freshness of the summer season. With these large flowers, it is very easy to create a simple arrangement in just a few minutes. I filled a couple of ginger jars I had on hand with water and started placing the flowers. Just remember to keep it simple! If you will also be cooking the meal, creating a simple arrangement allows you to enjoy the day by keeping it all easy and stress-free. By the way, have you ever wondered why they are called ginger jars? Well, their original use was to store spices. In the 1600’s Europeans apparently were obsessed with blue and white porcelain and they became more decorative in nature.

I wanted to serve something a little different than BBQ this year and came up with a menu that I think will please! I have shared all the recipes over on our Recipe Page, so check those out. Here’s the menu:

Watermelon with Balsamic and Feta

Ina Garten’s Tequila Lima Chicken

Fresh Corn on the Cob

Balsamic Roasted Potatoes

Blueberry Cobbler with Vanilla Ice Cream

GDFC wishes you a very happy 4th and we hope we have given you inspiration to create a memory for your family and friends.


Fun Stuff on Friday: Purple Polish, Hula Girls and more

June 23, 2017, posted by Gina – We’ve made it to another Friday and another fun stuff post!

Summertime is a great time to try out some new fun colors on your toes. I had a pedicure yesterday and chose Polly Want a Lacquer by OPI. I love this pale purple color but admit it is not  one of my usual color choices. I stick to pinks and neutrals most of the time but sometimes you just have to step out and be a little more daring. Do you tend to wear the same colors or are you a bit adventuresome?


Maybe I fell in love with Special K Dark Chocolate Coconut granola because I was famished when I first tried it, but I don’t think so. I think it is just plain yummy. I went a bit past my regular lunch time and decided to have a Chobani yogurt with a little of this granola on top. It was a real treat. Let us know if you try this. We’d love to know what you think about it.


It thought these cute little dashboard hula girls were a thing of the past…or are they? If you’re of a certain age, you no doubt remember seeing them stuck on dashboards, wiggling with every turn and bump. My son decided that it would be funny to wear a Hawaiian shirt and place this hula girl on his dashboard on our recent trip to the beach. His sense of humor is one of his qualities I admire so much. Did you ever have one of these on your dash? I had a Mother Mary statue but I somehow don’t think they are in the same category.

Why is it that as summertime just seems to be getting into full swing Fall is forced upon us? In craft stores and in clothing stores alike an Autumn chill starts to creep in even though it’s 95 degrees outside. One day bathing suits fill an area and the next (usually after the 4th of July) they are 50% off and their space is being taken over by Fall clothing. Pinterest is such a good indicator of what people are thinking about. Recently, I have seen many Fall decorating pins. If you are a planner like me, it is hard not to start thinking ahead. How about you? Do you start preparing for the next season early? Or do you relish every last minute of each season?

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8 Reasons to Handwrite a Thank You Note

June 19, 2017, posted by Gina – We’ve all been taught how to write thank you notes, but do we still do it in the age of texts and emails? Our mother was very strict about writing thank you notes and writing them very promptly. We always had stationery on hand and knew we were expected to write a thank you note for a gift or a nice gesture from someone. Mama GDFC was so emphatic about writing thank you notes that as gifts arrived for my wedding, I was expected to open them and write a thank you at that very moment. At one point, when the wedding was only a week away, about 10 gifts arrived at our home in one day. I opened them and was a bit overwhelmed at writing all 10 thank you notes right then and there. Mama GDFC gave me a stern lecture on being grateful and so the thank you notes were written and mailed.

Today, many people think it is fine to shoot a text or email which is practical and immediate. While any expression of thanks is nice, a handwritten note is much more personal and meaningful. Here are a few good reasons to take the time to write a nice thank you note.

8 REASONS TO HANDWRITE A THANK YOU NOTE

1. It’s just plain exciting for people to open their mailbox and see a hand addressed piece of mail that they instantly know is not a bill, a sales piece or other routine mailings. They know that it is something special.
2. A personal note of thanks makes a connection that no other form of communication can achieve. Your warmth, appreciation and emotion shine through and truly make the addressee feel special, even if for a moment.
3. It shows you are sincerely thankful. You are sharing your inner most thoughts on paper that can be read and re-read.
4. If the person sent a gift by mail or made arrangements in a store for delivery, it lets them know that you received the gift.
5. It makes an impression on the receiver that will not be quickly forgotten.
6. Gratitude has a positive effect on your mood long after the note is written or received. It is said that the more we express gratitude, the more grateful we become.
7. You can use beautiful stationery. There are so many wonderful preprinted and personalized cards; the selection is endless.
8. It’s just the nice thing to do.

Go ahead, order some beautiful stationery and get some wonderful stamps. A pretty stamp helps make it even more special. Find a pen that you love and put all of these things together so it is fun to jot down a few lines and send a bit of joy to someone!

A few helpful tips.
We love to order personalized stationery from our friend Eleanor at www.pinkpeppermintpaper.com. She is wonderful to work with and has some fun designs.

These Oscar de la Renta stamps have us over the moon. Fashion and flowers all in one! They are just so pretty.

reasons to write thank you notes

Do you love writing thank you notes or do you think it is a chore? Let us know by leaving us a comment. We love hearing from you!


Fun Stuff on Friday: 12 Gift Ideas for Father’s Day… and Other Stuff

June 16, 2017, posted by Gina – This week’s Fun Stuff post has a little bit of everything; Father’s Day gift ideas, cute shoes, tiny eggplant and Ina Garten’s new cooking show.

Father’s Day is this Sunday and we’ve been searching for the perfect gift. We seem to wrack our brains every year to come up with something he’ll love. Here is a list of some of the things we are considering as well as a few neat things we saw while out shopping. We hope these may be helpful to you if you are still looking for gifts.

1.Binoculars that fit on your face like glasses so they remain steady and you get a clearer focus on your subject.

2. Extra Photo Storage for an iPhone. I think maybe EVERYONE might need this one. It’s a Leef microSD reader that plugs into your iPhone allowing you to transfer photos from a microSD card to your iPhone or iPad and vice versa. It saves storage on your phone and keeps your photos safe all at once. It works with an App and you can read all the details on the Leef site HERE.

3. Camera Tripod. Mr. GDFC was attempting to take long range photos recently and mentioned he just could not keep the camera as still as he wanted. Light bulb! He will be getting a tripod to help him take just the right photos.

4. Grills and grilling equipment. We looked at a Green Egg but the price would make this purchase a family decision.

5. Kayaks. Ok, so you need to live near water for this one but it gets you on the water for a small price in comparison to boats or jet skis.

6. Tile Mate. This allows you to attach a small, square “tile” on your keys and wallet, download an App and if you lose, or just can’t locate either, the Tile Mate will help you find them.

7. mophie Power. This gives you 2 times regular battery power for your iPhone.

8. Swim trunks – perfect for summer

9. Exercise clothing or equipment

10. Wine

11. Ties – yes ties. Mr. GDFC wears a suit to work every day and it takes a great many ties to keep things fresh. He enjoys receiving new ties.

12. Clothing – always needed and nice to receive.

Now on to other fun stuff…

Check out these shoes! Yes, indeed they are mine! If you follow us then you know I have shown several other pairs of floral shoes but, each time I went to order them, I found they were out of stock. On a recent trip to New Orleans these wild and crazy babies caught my eye and they came home with me. I love the pearls on them. I mean, tennis shoes, flowers and pearls…. they fit my personality to a T!


Cook Like A Pro with Ina Garten is on air. I have seen one episode and was comforted just having Ina back on TV. This show is very much like her former ones and I loved every minute of it. I will confess I was on vacation when I saw the show and, having lost track of time, I don’t remember what day and time it came on. Check your local schedule to see when this wonderful show airs. All is right with the world again now that she if back on air.

Michelle buys flowers from the same ladies every Sunday at a farmers market in Lyon. Since she’s a loyal customer, they usually throw in a few extra flowers. Last week, they generously gave her 8 coral roses and a stem of …berries? pods? She wasn’t sure. After a little online search she discovered these yellow and green striped things are actually a tiny variety of eggplant called Thai eggplant! Neither of us had ever seen them before, maybe you have? At any rate, they looked very pretty mixed in with her flowers. We’ve incorporated tomatoes, artichokes, lemons, pears, apples, oranges, kumquats and a few other fruits and vegetables in our arrangements but this was a first.

That’s a wrap on our Friday. Enjoy your weekend and the fathers in your life!


Before and After House Renovation

June 8, 2017, posted by Gina – When I was a young girl I was a bit of a tomboy. I would much rather have been riding my bike with my hair on fire than playing with dolls. When I did find myself in the midst of a bunch of Barbies, I would inevitably decorate the dollhouse and totally ignore the dolls. So, I suppose that decorating houses somehow just came naturally to me.

For as long as I can remember friends have asked me to help them decorate their homes. I have never promoted myself as a professional and people understand it’s simply a passion of mine, but still I am asked. I love the thrill of before and afters and making anything look beautiful. While I have helped with projects on interiors quite often, I have never worked on an exterior other than changing paint colors. That is until now.

A friend of mine started telling me about her home over two years ago. She and her family were unhappy with it and had even looked at moving. I began to ask questions. I learned that her home was in a beautiful, well-established neighborhood with lush greenery and great neighbors. I found out that she was mostly unhappy with her kitchen. It turns out that her lighting had caught on fire leaving her with very minimal lighting which is not ideal in any home but even more drastic for a family with 5 children. I also learned that the area in her kitchen that was intended to be the breakfast nook had been taken over by her two adorable Goldendoodles.

She also shared with me that the exterior windows had seen better days. She now reminds me that during these conversations I told her that I could make her fall in love with her house again. Lord only knows how I had this kind of confidence, or maybe it was stupidity. Upon my first visit to her home we toured all the trouble spots. After completing my list of items that needed to be addressed I told her I needed to let things “marinate”. I always seem to use this term and I truly believe that you should give things a minute to settle in your head before you start making decisions.

I made a booklet for her full of ideas for making improvements which were to begin with the exterior but we jump-started some work in the kitchen. Roll back to the fire that left them without lighting. I sent her some ideas on chandeliers and recessed lighting to her and before I knew it, she had ordered all of them and called an electrician.

One of the critical things I told her we needed to work on next were the windows. They needed replacing and the whole exterior needed a new paint job. She was also unhappy with her front door. New windows and fresh paint somehow did not seem that exciting and I could tell that she was happy but not very enthusiastic. I began looking closer at the house. Most of the time, I think that keeping the original integrity of the architecture during a renovation looks the best. I was having a hard time trying to figure out what would bring her house back to life and make it appear fresh and updated.

First, they had never had shutters on any of the exterior windows. In studying the front façade, I realized that if we accented just two of the windows we could really change the look of the house. She was very excited about this. In the back of my mind, I just could not shake that something still was not right. The house had a small front porch but for some reason it just looked unfinished to me. The front door was not defined. It looked exactly like the two doors beside it. Our original idea was to get a new front door. Still, the house was lacking something. After much thought, I realized it needed posts. I drove around looking at houses for days until I finally hit the jackpot. Cedar beams would be the ticket! They would complete the porch and update the 1990’s home all at once.

Then we got bad news on the front door. The one we selected was not going to work because of size and trim issues unless we did a whole lot of work. I told her not to worry that we would make her front door look nice. After the paint went up (we tried Sea Salt by Sherwin Williams) on the front door, it was very clear that it needed to be the same color as the other doors. The body of the house was painted Alabaster and the custom shutters were painted Pavestone, both by Sherwin Williams. Sometimes I guess you just should let the house speak to you. Still, the front door needed to stand apart from the others in some way. I decided that a light fixture beside the door and an address plaque would help it stand out. Of course, a nice welcoming floral basket would be a nice idea too.

We were both very happy at this point. Until we started looking at the landscaping. It had lived a full life and was no longer attractive. Some shrubbery had died and others had just grown too large. I told her I thought she should take it all out. Before I knew it, she had called someone to pull everything out and grind up all the stumps. And then the hard part came; I needed to select the new landscaping. I drew a plan on paper and she really liked it. I went to the nursery and priced everything out and then I felt ill. What had I done? What was I thinking? Was I suddenly a landscaper? Was I selecting the right plants? Would it look good? Would the plants work? I have no idea how I had the confidence to do this but I did. The plants were delivered in a few days and we placed them where they were to be planted. The landscaping crew planted them and put out new pine straw and it all looked great. I could breathe again.

The work was coming to an end on the exterior of the home. She called one day and really wanted to work on the kitchen, the one thing she really wanted in the first place. She wanted to paint her cabinets, get new pulls and find a new use for the area the dogs had taken over. Pulling all the cabinets out was not in the budget now. If you remember, the house was built in the 1990’s and back then there were not a lot of really tall cabinets like you see in today’s new homes. I kept studying the cabinets and the walls but could not decide on a paint color for the cabinets. We looked at a million colors and then a light bulb went off. Why not paint the cabinets the same color as the walls which was Revere Pewter by Sherwin Williams? It was a great color, she had the walls painted not too long ago, so why not? There would be no harsh separation between the shorter cabinets and the walls. So, the painting began. I was a nervous wreck. Would this look boring? What if she hated it? I was scared to call her. Literally. And then she sent me a picture and it was wonderful. We selected some beautiful gold hardware that really changed the look of the cabinets.

One day, one of the furniture stores in our town was having a huge sale. For some reason, I told her about it and said maybe it would be a good time to get furniture for her breakfast nook. I had learned that her family did not eat in that area because the dining room was much better suited for their family of 7 (5 children and 2 adults). I suggested they turn that into a keeping room. My new home had one and initially we had no idea how we would use it but now it is the most used room in our home, so I thought her family may enjoy it as well. We drew out a plan consisting of 2 club chairs, a loveseat, and a coffee table. She liked my idea of getting the furniture while on sale. I met her at the store and in about an hour we had selected the chairs, loveseat, a small table to go between the chairs, a coffee table and a large cow print now more commonly referred to as “Ellie” as named by my friend and her oldest daughter. Once the furniture arrived at her house, we determined that while the coffee table would fit, it would just seem too large. I recommended she cancel it and I would find something else. I finally realized that some garden stools would be the perfect addition to the cozy space.

One other thing she wanted to change was the tile floor in the kitchen. We decided to keep her current ones and top them with some seagrass rugs. This ended up working better than we originally thought all because of Ellie. That one painting brought all the colors together including the floor. Suddenly, the floor and the whole kitchen was transformed.

Now that everything is complete I can breathe a sigh of relief. It’s one thing when it’s your own house but an entirely different story when it is someone else’s. I absolutely loved working on this process which my friend made very enjoyable. She did not stress over anything. I wish I could be like that. I think moms with 5 children must have super powers and my friend is certainly one of them.

The biggest thing I learned from this process is that you don’t have to gut a room or an exterior to make big, wonderful changes. We made the best of her budget and she tells me she loves her home again. For me, I learned to trust myself with renovation decisions and that makes me very happy and ready to help with another project. And now for the pictures….

Here is the before photo of the house. There was a deep orange front door, olive green trim and no shutters. 

Here is the after: New paint, shutters, landscaping, light fixture, address plaque and front door arrangement.


This was the front porch before. The furniture was a bit large for the space so we removed it and hope to find something that is a better scale for the area in the future.


And here is the after of the front porch and new landscaping.


Here is a close-up of the custom made shutters. The gentleman who made these worked meticulously until he got them just right.


Another look at the shutters and landscaping up close. You also see that we chose bamboo shades on the interior windows. While they are for privacy they also serve as a decorative element from the exterior of the home.


Here are the windows on the far, northern side of the home. Hydrangeas were planted where they can be seen from the new keeping room.

Another view of the porch and shutters…


An up close view of the new columns that were custom made; the oil ribbed bronze light fixture and the address plaque. These design elements helped to define the front door.


Front door arrangement from GDFC and light fixture…

Here is a before photo of the windows without shutters and the overgrown landscaping.

renovation project before and after

Again, here is the finished exterior… Renovation Success!

before and after renovation


Flowers for a Graduation

June 1, 2017 posted by Gina – I recently did flowers for graduation events at a local high school. This was a two-day celebration and many flower arrangements were needed. We incorporated the school colors into the designs. Let’s take a look at what the arrangements looked liked.

We arranged 8 of these smaller rose bowls filled with roses, bells of Ireland, billy balls, buplurem and solidago. They were used on large round tables.

This was the largest arrangement that was about 3 feet wide by 4 feet tall. It was used in the sanctuary of the church as well as in front of the podium at the actual graduation ceremony. White and yellow roses, bells of Ireland, snapdragons, stock, buplurum, solidago, billy balls and greenery filled the copper container.

This arrangement was made for a center hall table. White and yellow roses, bells of Ireland, snapdragons, stock, buplurum, solidago and greenery filled the copper container.


These small, round arrangements were made for cocktail tables and ended up being my favorite of all the grouping. White roses, solidago and bupleurum were used.


These two tall arrangements were made up for a couple of beverage tables.


Everything waiting and ready to go…


Manners on Monday

May 29, 2017, posted by Gina – Happy Memorial Day! We hope you’ve had a great long weekend. As many people drive back from their mini-vacations, this may be the best time to bring up driving and courtesy.

Open road, no traffic, no problems!

Picture yourself driving down the road. You come upon a large amount of traffic. Cars trying to turn left through the traffic are having a very difficult time. You realize if you stay put you can allow a car to go ahead and cross through traffic in front of you. You motion for the person in the car trying to turn left to go ahead. It takes them a few minutes to realize you are motioning to them. Meanwhile, traffic is backing up behind you. The car turning left finally makes their way across the lane.

And then it happens, or rather it does not happen. You don’t get the nod or the wave or the salute. The person totally ignores your effort to be helpful. It feels as if you were slapped in the face. A simple nod or a wave of thanks is very much appreciated by the driver who has taken a few seconds to do something nice for another driver.

What about you? Are you always a little miffed when your courteous behavior goes unacknowledged? Or maybe you don’t mind if someone goes on their merry way without that little wave of thanks?